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'You had your time... now I get the wedding': Bride's 'scary' open letter to her fiancé's high school girlfriend goes viral - as readers urge her husband-to-be to 'run for your life' (11 Pics)

A bride-to-be's gloating open letter to her fiancé's high school girlfriend has gone viral after it was branded 'scary' by readers.   

In a piece called 'You May Have Worn The Prom Dress With Him, But I Get To Wear The Wedding Dress' published on The Odyssey, student Victoria Higgins admitted to being jealous of the girl her husband-to-be took to his prom - but bragged about being the woman who gets to marry him.  

Victoria, thought to be a student at Missouri State University, wrote: 'I wish that I could say I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but I can't', adding that it 'kills her' that she didn't know her partner in high school and get to cheer him on at sports matches.

Her letter has now gone viral, with startled readers calling the bride-to-be a 'bunny boiler' on social media. 

In the story, Higgins wrote that while many teenage girls think they will marry their high school boyfriends, she was the one to whom the unnamed woman's prom date had eventually popped the question.

She said: 'You had your time, and now I get the wedding. You got to dress up in high school, but I get to dress up for my wedding with him. 

'He may have put a corsage on your wrist, but he will be putting the wedding ring on my finger.'
Despite her pride at being the one who got to marry the unnamed man, she admitted to experiencing huge jealousy at now sharing the milestones of a teenage romance with him.



She wrote: 'It kills me that I couldn't be there for him because I know I would have actually been there wholeheartedly. I would have done it out of love, not as a popularity appearance.'

Higgins told the ex girlfriend that she wasn't 'sorry' that she didn't get to end up with the man she's marrying, but assured her that she would 'find someone too'.

The article has now been shared thousands of times on social media by users who mocked Higgins' 'scary' attitude towards her fiancé's ex.






One tweeted: 'Jesus Christ, don’t even have to read the article. The title alone screams ''bunny boiler''.'

'He needs to run! RUN FOR HIS LIFE!!!' another posted.

A third said: 'This piece is one example of why I sometimes think, in all seriousness, that the minimum age for marriage should be 30.'

'She sounds like she’s 1 break up away from being a bunny boiler,' another agreed.





THE BRIDE'S LETTER IN FULL  


High school seems like the best time of your life when you are in it. You think that all of your friends will be with you until the end, and that you will end up with whoever you are dating your senior year. For very few, that might just be the case. For all others, that is far from true.

You thought that you would marry your boyfriend and you thought that everything would work out how you had always imagined. I don't blame you though. He's great. You wanted everything with him, but you were just not right for him.

I wish I could say that I am sorry it didn't work out for you, but I can't. I can't because he is mine now, and I get to cherish him forever. You didn't do that right, and you were not meant to be together. You will find someone too, but I am happy that you were not the one for him.
Sometimes I have issues with jealousy, and I hate that you got all of the high school stuff with him. You got to go to games and support him. It kills me that I couldn't be there for him because I know I would have actually been there wholeheartedly. I would have done it out of love, not as a popularity appearance.

I hate that you got to go to all of the school dances with him. He got to see you all dressed up and probably told you how great you looked. I'm sure you did look great. Prom dresses were always fun to pick out and so colorful. It was exciting to match colors with your date. I am sure you had fun choosing his matching tux to your dress.

I find myself getting jealous, but then I stop. I am getting to match his tux with our wedding colors. I got to go dress shopping in a sea of white, and he doesn't get to know one detail about that dress yet. He will get to see me walk down the aisle and then every day forever. I get to love him forever.

I try to not get jealous of all of the things you got with him because it is all in the past. You had your time, and now I get the wedding. You got to dress up in high school, but I get to dress up for my wedding with him. He may have put a corsage on your wrist, but he will be putting the wedding ring on my finger.

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